Define Love (Asignment 22nd Sept 2011)

Reflection on PDA and define love with your own words.


  My reflection on PDA is i like it,this is because i like to see a romantic situation as long it is not over reacted, and respect people in the public. PDA is any type of action or behavior to show their love to their partner in public.

   Love is a very universal thing that happen in our life and love can happen in many kind of condition. It appear in feeling and form an action. For me love is  a very wonderful things. It make us rejoice, calm and live in peaceful. With love,many bad things can change to good things. Can u imagine what am i thinking of love?

   Here let me explain to you what i understand about love. Love is common to us. There's many type of love in this world, for example ; love of human to god, love of human to human , love of human to nature. In this context i would like to touch on love of human to human. Do you think possesiveness, jealousy, lust, fear, keeping people all to yourself and expecting something from someone is love? Well you are wrong, that is not love. Real true love is something unconditional, which means that you accept sincerely somebody exactly as they were before and exactly will be in the future and you really love as they are without doubting even they become something that you disagree. Love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be beside them no matter what.

   Lastly, love that based on needs are not love but desire and it will never last longer. Love is a natural thing that came without a signal and nobody can't resist it from happening. It's sincerely appear in our heart and change our world.

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What is platonic love?


-Platonic love is a term that used to mention relevance of love, but the elements of a sense of sexual attraction does not exist.


 >> Example: A man love a mute and deaf women. Even the women is mute and deaf, he still stand beside                                           her no matter what happen. Their love is a platonic love.
>>Nazirah Mehra likes to read platonic love story.


What is rebound love?


-Rebound love means that you've just been dumped or ended a relationship and you bounced back from grief. What i mean is rise again from dolor. Easy to find other people to love so that he or she can forget their love in past.      


>> Example ; Emilia went to date her virtual friend after her boyfriend dump her last week. She had rebound her love to survive longer.
>> Zahliana rebound love makes her day more colorful than before.




What is pre-love?


-Pre-loved means previously owned such as; house, pet etc. Used especially in advertisements to suggest the previous owner cared strongly about the object, animal etc.


>> Example ; Shila had been reminded to take care Mrs. Zurin's cat because the cat is her pre-loved.
>> Please take care that statue,it was Danish pre-loved hand made.

What is re-love?

 
-Re-loved means to love in return as u have received. We only can re-love someone who only love us with all of their heart.


>> Example ; Maria had donate a part of her heart to Zack as she love him so much and afraid to lose him.Zack had re-loved Maria with all his heart until willing to sacrifice anything for her.  
>> It wasn't a waste to re-love our nature instead of getting benefits  as a return. 

FIrsT LOve

My first love begins at Form 3. 

           I still remember the date, which was on 26th January 2008. It happened when I was register for my school at SMK Balung. While I was waiting for the approvement to study at that school, I stood at the corner of the hall. Suddenly my eyes caught on a guy that was going to pass in front of me. It's hard to believe that my heart started to beat quickly. I saw a handsome tall guy walk smartly from the other side. He has a daring eyes, sharp nose, sexy lips and a pair of dimple on his face! He is exactly same like my dream guy. I like everything about him. Started from that day, I become his secret admirer. Each time when I have the chance, I lurked him silently. 

    

              When I entered to Form 4, I hardly believe that we are in the same class! He changed my life. My days turned more colorful than before. While in the class, we never speak with each other. On the 4th Raya 2008, my friends and I went to member's house to celebrate Hari Raya. It was funny because at the same time, all of my friends don't have any credit on their phone and we didn't know where is the bus fare. Luckily I just topup my credit. Thanks to my friend, Khalila, she used my phone to call him to ask about bus fare to his village. Unfortunately, Khalila forget to ask him the bus fare. So she asked me to text him. He asked me who I am. I told him that I am Aziza A. Since that, he recognized me and tell me about the bus. I swore to God that I won't text him again. 

            The thing I didn't expect happened. That night I was kinda shock because he texted me.I'm so happy! Start from that moment, our story begin. He kept texting me and I can't resist to reply him. Until one night, I proposed him. It was only a joke. I say "ree...i can eat,i can take a bath but i can't sleep, will you be my boyfriend?" But without expect anything, he also had a feeling towards me. Seriously, I can' believe it. He firmly admitted his feeling to me. And that night, on 23rd November 2009, at 11.29PM, we were officially become a couple. 

             Actually, we wanted our relationship to be a secret, only we both know about it. But I can't imagine that the whole school already knew about us. Thing was still the same, we still didn't speak face to face when we were at school. We only contact through the phone. Our relationship became more closer. After 1 month, I received a present from him. It was a pair of couple watch; one for him and one for me. Another thing is, I am the first girlfriend that got a present from him. He said that I'm the most special than before.